"Boyfriend Shopping"

So I went boyfriend shopping. His name is Rabbit, when he gets on his high horse though he likes to be called "The Rabbit".......

"Das Beer Boot Music Video"

LOL its catchy. 

Am I going to go out and buy the "Beer Boot"..... No, but I will watch this video over and over again.

"The Publics Take On My Blog, Myself, and Their Honest Opinions"

I have received numerous amounts of feedback from people. I want to Thank you for your support. I truly am genuinely touched by your messages and posts to me. I want to personally thank two people, Deborah and PinkCadillac. Whoever you guys are (kind of cool how by the means of blogging, and messaging you build a virtual friendship with someone) Thank You.


PinkCadillac has left a new comment on your post ""Single In The City"": 

"Congrats to you Hailey. Many people did not start out cheering for you, but then you won people over during a difficult time in your life . Your personality as a good, sweet, honest ,fun loving girl began to shine through .Everyone has had a bad boyfriend in their past. Think of it as your college education in who not to date ever again . Don't let the ugly ones define you or hold you back from a wonderful future." 

Deborah has left a new comment on your post ""Single In The City"":

"Hailey,
At one time or another we have all set ourselves up to be hurt deeply. I believe your hurt would have been so much easier to get over if there wasn't so much money involved. To get played is one thing but getting robbed at the same time is another.
At least when you saw your world crumble, that the man you believed in was a impostor. ALOT of women are not that strong or smart. It seems their are always those that willingly sell themselves SHORT(pun intended) when they find they hooked up with a impostor just to save face. You didn't do that!


Your interview with the ladies at Imperfect Women rocks"



Deborah has left a new comment on your post ""Single In The City"":

"I'm with Pink, so good to see you come out the winner.
Here's a link to a song about jerk boyfriends and FaceBook. I think we can all relate to it."




Everyone out there-


You both are 110% correct. We can all relate to each other on some level or another. 
You guys give me a chuckle and I appreciate your input. 


If anyone out there needs to just vent or wants advice you are more then welcome to come to this blog. I am not one to be judgmental and I accept everyone for who they are no matter what. No judgements will be past on any of you and just be yourself. In life thats all you can do. At some points as you all know I felt as if it was me against the world and there was nothing I could do. I just tried my best to stay strong and think "things will get better". 


Life is the hard part, dying is the easy part. 
So lets all ride out the roller-coaster ride of life (the up's, the down's, even the upside down times) and share our experiences and or our hurt.
 Either way someone out there, someone on their computer, someone crying thinking things won't get better, wherever they are can relate and be helped. You never know whose life you can touch just by the means of blogging your honest life experiences and how you got through it or are going through it.


Just know Things Will Get Better. I promise you. I know from first hand experience. Judging meanwhile not even knowing me on top of everything else. I could go on and on but thats pointless. Of course it hurts, but I want to use my knowledge to help others.


The wounds will always be there but the knowledge and growth you learn through things that traumatize you helps you in the end. I now understand the saying, "What hurts you only makes you stronger".

"Born This Way"

You ever feel different or misunderstood?
 Or maybe you are one of those people who let what others say get to you? Don't let anyone get you down. If anyone has a problem with you just stay strong and true to yourself .
Usually its the ones who are different and beat to their own drum who get it the worse.


Who said being different is bad? 


‎"People say that you're going the wrong way when it's simply a way of your own"- Angelina Jolie


Sometimes you have to just think F what others say and realize "I Was Born This Way"

"Single In The City"

Women all around the city are single and looking, but where is that perfect guy? "Is it normal" that I would rather be alone then go on a date? "Is it normal" that I feel kissing someone or hooking up is a chore?
Join me on my journey to find that four letter word......Love.

I was asked the other day "Hailey what is your 10 year plan"? I had explained how I planned on being the CEO of Hailey Glassman PR and Event firm, having locations in NYC and LA. Then all the stuff in between, but not once did having my own family cross my mind.
I called my Mom up that night to tell her the Interview question I was asked. Her response to me was "Hail don't you want to meet a nice, honest man and have children and your own family", I simply felt like "WHAT, how dare she, I have my own family, you (Mom), Dad, Shaun, Grandma, Uncle Robbie". My Mom aka (Lauren) laughed and said "Hailey you have to open your heart up again someday and not be afraid"..

I hate to admit it but Momma Glassman is right. I fear Love, I think sometimes when your done so dirty and wronged in the past it is hard to just band aid the hurt and pain. From here on out all Spring and Summer I am dedicating it to being Single and ready to Mingle

I will be having my dates filmed and upload them onto here. I would like your input on who I should go on a second date with?

Coming soon ....

Addressing What "size is normal"

Look I have been receiving numerous emails the last year on Facebook and Twitter from women asking me about if the size of their man is normal and sending me pictures of them! It would be weird for me not to address it .... after everything..
 I am not an expert but I do have to say that men can talk about women's boobs all day everyday and its politically correct. God forbid someone talks about a mans size and its like "OMG no she didn't".
PLEASE no more double standards.
Ladies feel free to vent and go all out on anything, any questions, any advice, opinions, just don't use a verbal filter and have this as your guilty pleasure blog. Get honest advice that your friends and family won't give you or you just don't feel comfortable discussing it with them...

Also men, like I said before there is no double standards but feel free to talk as well. Just no names of the people you are talking about.


I actually have a question for all of you.

Now In all honesty I don't really know what size is normal? Do you? I think 5-6 inches is the lower end of the norm? I will be hitting the streets of Manhattan next week to find out what men and women had to say on that topic.

This isn't a bashing type blog, this is just a brutally honest, "Raw and Real Advice" blog.

Someone wrote me

Dear Hailey,
- "I'm dating a guy and we finally took it to the next level, I found out he is not circumcised what should I do in your opinion? It was my first time ever seeing one like that and I was taken off guard..I saw on your Twitter something about you and a blog... which I noticed just went up today. It had me intrigued and I thought, "you know what why not ask Hailey's opinion"- She is known for being brutally honest on her advice.. So Hailey Please help me with this situation. Do I stay with him or cut the ties due to him being uncircumcised?
-Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

My honest opinion is you have to look at all the positives first and then the negatives. If the negatives out weigh the positives then you know the answer, but if he is a great guy and you truly care about him then stick through it. Make him have a bris (Jews do it to cut the foreskin off of the penis) which is then a circumcised one. You can always just take him to a medical facility and get it done. I don't think you should end a great relationship due to that. Though its medically known that uncircumcised penises are dirtier just due to shmutz getting caught in their foreskin. I have actually seen one in my life, It looks like a penis with a top hat on. Like a puppet show.
But I say if you care about him stay with him, don't let that ruin your feelings towards him. Does it feel better then a circumcised one? I mean to give a BJ I understand. Gross but have him get checked out and make sure he is clean, but don't get rid of a nice, kind, and honest guy due to that. Those traits are hard to find now a days.

"Underground Talent" in the Subways of New York

There are some really talented people underground performing in the Subways of New York City.

With your help I am going to find the next Underground Talent . I will hit the Subways Uptown, Downtown, East Side, West Wide, and post video's weekly and you can vote on your favorite talent.

I'm usually out and about and stumble upon the talent. Like this one last week on a hungover Sunday morning.

Coming Soon.. To help others by the means of Brutal Honesty

You want brutally honest advice, Then this is the Blog for you! Vent, ask any type of questions, From,
"Is it too small",
"Should I let my daughter date"
"I hooked up with my roommate who is also a girl does that make me a lesbian even though its college",
 Or for Mom's "When is the right time to let your child become an adult and make his or her own decisions".
There is an endless list of questions everyone has. We are all human.. In fact I'm going to dedicate a whole area to "Is This Normal" and anyone of you can email me to tell me your story/situation. A second opinion is always the best especially when its via Social Media and no one knows who you are or what you look like. You can be Anonymous or have a nickname.
People be honest and keep it interesting. This isn't a blog for boring people.

My advice from first hand experience is everything is better left Anonymous.

If you have questions, Hailey Glassman has got the answers.