"Is My Boyfriend Cheating"?

"Dear Hailey,

I think My boyfriend is cheating on me but every time I confront him about it he tells me "baby your the only one I love and am with". I don't know what to say or do. He looks at me with his big brown eyes and tells me how much he loves me but he strolls in at like 4a.m. and tells me he was out with "the boys".

What do you think I should do? I know you have been through a lot, obviously very different but how do you catch your man if you expect him cheating?

-Mary W

Hey Mary,

I have no words because I don't want to hurt you or give you a reality check. Someone you love cheating on you, sucks. The feeling of betrayal is very painful.    :-(     ..          I'm sorry. 

Enjoy my song advice

Next time your man comes home at like 4 a.m. and you expect he is cheating; You throw his pillow on the floor and simply state firmly to him"that's where the dogs sleep"




p.s.- Don't forget to smell it. Don't let him go straight into the shower when he gets home.
"Let me smell yo dick" ---lol

"Take Me As I Am"

"Say No To the Hot Nanny Ho"

"Dear Hailey,


My husband and I just had our first child and we have been interviewing nannies. We both found one we liked but she is extremely beautiful. I don't want to look like a jealous, control freak and not hire her because she is gorgeous. 
I followed that whole saga with you and read you were cheated on by your ex with his children's nanny. 
I was wondering what your "first hand" advice/opinion would be?
She is fully qualified for the position and seems really sweet. Should I give it a try?"


-Liz B






Hey Liz,


I feel it depends on how pretty. In a nut shell NO, don't hire a hot nanny. Are you crazy! "Fully qualified", what does she have a degree from Harvard in Nannying? No Don't hire her. I'm sorry but just no. Why would you dangle eye candy everyday in front of your husband. 
I remember growing up I had nannies but not one time do I recall a hot nanny. Be like my Mom and only hire people who don't speak english and from out of the country. My mom was a genius she never hired anyone under 180 lb's....lol
Unless your intentions are not just nannying I don't see why you would have a hot nanny. Period the end. Get an illegal immigrant like everyone else does. The first question on your list to the nannies should be, "do you have a social security #"? If the answer is "no" then they are hired.
So the answer to this question is........ 
                          
               "SAY NO TO THE HOT NANNY HO"


Remember fantasy and lust can get the best of everyone.

"Boyfriend Shopping"

So I went boyfriend shopping. His name is Rabbit, when he gets on his high horse though he likes to be called "The Rabbit".......

"Das Beer Boot Music Video"

LOL its catchy. 

Am I going to go out and buy the "Beer Boot"..... No, but I will watch this video over and over again.

"The Publics Take On My Blog, Myself, and Their Honest Opinions"

I have received numerous amounts of feedback from people. I want to Thank you for your support. I truly am genuinely touched by your messages and posts to me. I want to personally thank two people, Deborah and PinkCadillac. Whoever you guys are (kind of cool how by the means of blogging, and messaging you build a virtual friendship with someone) Thank You.


PinkCadillac has left a new comment on your post ""Single In The City"": 

"Congrats to you Hailey. Many people did not start out cheering for you, but then you won people over during a difficult time in your life . Your personality as a good, sweet, honest ,fun loving girl began to shine through .Everyone has had a bad boyfriend in their past. Think of it as your college education in who not to date ever again . Don't let the ugly ones define you or hold you back from a wonderful future." 

Deborah has left a new comment on your post ""Single In The City"":

"Hailey,
At one time or another we have all set ourselves up to be hurt deeply. I believe your hurt would have been so much easier to get over if there wasn't so much money involved. To get played is one thing but getting robbed at the same time is another.
At least when you saw your world crumble, that the man you believed in was a impostor. ALOT of women are not that strong or smart. It seems their are always those that willingly sell themselves SHORT(pun intended) when they find they hooked up with a impostor just to save face. You didn't do that!


Your interview with the ladies at Imperfect Women rocks"



Deborah has left a new comment on your post ""Single In The City"":

"I'm with Pink, so good to see you come out the winner.
Here's a link to a song about jerk boyfriends and FaceBook. I think we can all relate to it."




Everyone out there-


You both are 110% correct. We can all relate to each other on some level or another. 
You guys give me a chuckle and I appreciate your input. 


If anyone out there needs to just vent or wants advice you are more then welcome to come to this blog. I am not one to be judgmental and I accept everyone for who they are no matter what. No judgements will be past on any of you and just be yourself. In life thats all you can do. At some points as you all know I felt as if it was me against the world and there was nothing I could do. I just tried my best to stay strong and think "things will get better". 


Life is the hard part, dying is the easy part. 
So lets all ride out the roller-coaster ride of life (the up's, the down's, even the upside down times) and share our experiences and or our hurt.
 Either way someone out there, someone on their computer, someone crying thinking things won't get better, wherever they are can relate and be helped. You never know whose life you can touch just by the means of blogging your honest life experiences and how you got through it or are going through it.


Just know Things Will Get Better. I promise you. I know from first hand experience. Judging meanwhile not even knowing me on top of everything else. I could go on and on but thats pointless. Of course it hurts, but I want to use my knowledge to help others.


The wounds will always be there but the knowledge and growth you learn through things that traumatize you helps you in the end. I now understand the saying, "What hurts you only makes you stronger".

"Born This Way"

You ever feel different or misunderstood?
 Or maybe you are one of those people who let what others say get to you? Don't let anyone get you down. If anyone has a problem with you just stay strong and true to yourself .
Usually its the ones who are different and beat to their own drum who get it the worse.


Who said being different is bad? 


‎"People say that you're going the wrong way when it's simply a way of your own"- Angelina Jolie


Sometimes you have to just think F what others say and realize "I Was Born This Way"